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Top Drop, Sub Space & Subconcious States workshop / Leather & Lace Play Party!

That high that keeps you coming back for more is just one of many conscious states explored in Kink. Top high/Top Drop, Sub Space/Sub drop, find out what it all means, why we love it and how to explore it safely. Stick around for Midnight's Leather & Lace Play Party!

Top Drop, Sub Space & Subconcious States workshop / Leather & Lace Play Party!
Top Drop, Sub Space & Subconcious States workshop / Leather & Lace Play Party!

Time & Location

Sep 17, 2022, 4:00 p.m. – Sep 18, 2022, 11:50 p.m.

Kelowna, 3699 BC-97 #204, Kelowna, BC V1X 5C3, Canada


Top Drop, Sub Space & Subconcious States workshop

Kink & BDSM share a relationship with psychology. Some might call it CBT, not cock and ball torture lol, cognitive behavioural therapy. The act of reliving an imapctful moment from your past that fired and wired together in your system. For some this is a very pleasurable memory either experienced or witnessed and the intention is to keep living it, like a fantasy you can't get enough of. For others it is a negative experience and the intention is to create a different outcome while reliving it in full control with safe words and boundaries.  Each can encompass various forms of pleasure or pain. For example, whips and chains can be sombody's happy or safe place while for someone else its a fearful hell. 

When you transcend into subconscious layers you can create magnificent experiences that feels like a blissful euphoria. Activating your sympathetic nervous system releases a flood of feel good endorphines and hormones. Knowing how to be intentionally and safely activate your partner can create long lasting memories and deep bonding moments. Fucking this up can have quite the opposite effect and cause unrepairable damage that has a negative ripple effect in your partner for the rest of their lives. No one wants that. 

In this workshop you will learn:

  • The importance of creating an inner sanctuary (conscious safe place)
  • To identify various states of consciousness in your partner during scene
  • How to elevate, pendulate and de-escalate each layer. 
  • Activating your partners primal fire and yang state  (great for primal, pet, heavy impact, take down, hunts or sexual play)
  • Activating your partners trance or yin state (great for out of body, needles, sensual, sensation, caging, mumificaition or cathartic play)
  • What to do if your partner has an emotional release and how to co-regulate
  • How to avoid traumatizing or activating old trauma in your partner
  • Proper Aftercare methods
  • Safety tips and tricks for a positive and memorable scene

Live Demos and guided interactive learning activities!

Midnight's Leather & Lace Play Party

Join us for Midnight's Leather & Lace after workshop Play Party. This BDSM focused party invites the M/s, D/s, and hedonist players to enjoy their scene. Leather up for BDSM or embody your inner seductress with sexy lace for an erotic sex positive scene. Fill the Moon Room with screams and moans as we combine sensual pleasure with sacred pain.

What to wear:

Lucsious leather, lacey lingerie or a combination of both. Let your creative juices flow with various expressions of leather and lace. Most of your attire must consist of these two fabrics. You may arrive in your kink attire or change in the aftercare room. I Love Dressing Up, it really gets my juices flowing when I see everyone go all out with their kinky attire! 🤩

The Moon Room 

Great sound system, epic light set up and sexy atmosphere with all the party fixings.

4 - 6 play stations including:

  • 4 suspension points
  • Floor to ceiling chains
  • Stockade
  • Bondage bar
  • Sex swing
  • Massage table
  • Tantra chair
  • Multi purpose leather benches
  • Cage

Plan your scenes!

Use the space. Medical scenes allowed in designated area, sharps containers are provided. Watersports, Electro play, Fire play and BDSM welcome. Bring your fav sex toys and BDSM tools. 

Moon Room spaces:

  • Studio play space
  • 2 lounge areas
  • Snack station and mini kitchen
  • Safety and cleaning station
  • Washroom with shower (bring your own towel)
  • Private aftercare room

House Protcol:

  • The Moon Room is Sex Positive for the entirety of the Leather & Lace Play Party. 
  • Those who identify on the right side of the slash are not to sit on lounge furniture which is reserved for those who identify on the left side of the slash (D/s , M/s etc).
  • All guests are required to agree to Midnight Moon’s terms and conditions and sign a confidentiality form including R.A.C.K for the safety and privacy of all in attendance.
  • The Moon Room is marijuana friendly however no drugs or alcohol is permitted. Smoking area provided outside.

Whats close by?

On the ground floor you will find a pizza place, Subway and liquor store. Within a 5 minute drive is Tim Hortons, McDonald and gas stations. Many restaurants, pubs and parks within 10 minutes.

Plenty of free parking!


The Moon Room is on the second floor and only accessible by stairs. Music is at moderate to loud volume. Flashy and pulsing LED lighting.

Looking forward to seeing you all there!

~ Midnight


  • 1 hour 30 minutes

    Top/Drop, Sub Space & Subconscious States workshop

    Moon Room

  • 4 hours 50 minutes

    Midnight's Leather & Lace Play Party!

    Moon Room


  • Subconscious States Workshop

    This ticket is for the Top Drop/Sub Space & Subconscious states workshop only.

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  • Leather & Lace Party Ticket

    This ticket is for Midnight's Leather & Lace Play Party only

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  • Workshop & Play Party Combo

    This ticket is for both the Top Drop, Sub Space and Conscious States workshop and Midnight's Leather & Lace Play Party!

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